Been so long. Still the same old place. Good things that I dont have readers following the posts. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoPkMmqOPYs&list=PLqbiv4ZP2BvpelxJtua3mN2mJ1zdsBafY 

Friends and Social Circle

Recently you'll see people nowadays quite often complaining its getting harder and harder to have friends gathering.....

its true,

but what makes it different compared with the good-old-college/uni-time, and out-of-the-society time?

Indeed, the main reason is that everyone has their own schedule or planned activities. Its difficult to meet everybody's availability especially when your group is big.

The second reason i would says that maybe its due to the nature or topic of conversation that ppl have little interest in it?

As we grow older, the line between socialise and friends meeting is getting clearer;

You'll discuss deeper thought with friends but not with people you're socialising.

With friends, we shares our views toward the society, views toward news happened around us, or our planning in life etc....

But when we're mingle with ppl in our social circle, we talk about food, little gossips here and there, or something doesn't really matter... we just need to keep the talking going without the need for deeper interaction.

Do you know what's your friends' dreamed life or what are they looking for in their life? What is their point of view towards the society, the country, or even the bigger picture -- things happening in the world?

For me, it is very easy to go out for a drink or dinner, mingle around with light chit chat and social away; but its getting lesser or harder to get someone who i can share things with. I'd tried to ask good old friends out to meet and chat, but disappointedly things are not quite the same anymore compared to the school-time. People changed, so do I...

I've changed a lot since I meet my loved, I've changed on trying to break the common cycle people are going through, I've take the first step to start my own business and seek the opportunity to break through the employed life, I've changed to wanting to know more about what's going on in the world, I've changed my habits my thoughts, and so and so on....

Sadly i don't have anyone to share these with but him, which caught me keep thinking that who is my so called real friend or perhaps buddies who thinks alike?

So, i would not be harsh to ppl who can't make it to meet up often, it is just a normal social after all. And for friends who couldn't make it for a gathering? Its not a big deal neither, friends doesn't need to meet up face to face frequently to make the friendship "sustain" right?

Just my 2 cents, have a great weekend and cheers ;)

Posture in Latin DanceSport

explanation in details.... very useful

Something unsolved will still remains unsolved over the time, no matter how long is it u neglected it and let it be.... If it needs to be sorted out, then the only way is to discuss and get it done... Isn't it?

Jive Lessons

Time..memory..connection

People always think that things will fade over time, how true is it?

Some memory won't fades out over time.. Maybe u are nt aware of it most of the time, u feel nothing at all most of the time, but when you come across similar situation, the same date, same place, smell, sounds, songs, movies, and things... Then ur memories will flash back at the moment, u wil remember wat happens, the joys the tears and the one who is with u at tat time... 

It wil be a lie when u deny the connection between u and the people who u spend years with... Fond and connection build up as years goes by, it stops when u lost contact with those people, but time wil not decrease or minus the strength of the fond built, it's just stop..

In certain occasion, the bond stop forever when u totally lost contact with those ppl, all u have is only memories which will pop up occasionally and reminds u of wat u had... 

In certain occasion, the connection transformed into a lighter fond, accumulating over those years' and still tickles your heart if its nt touching your heart...

So, how time fades thing?

It is a lil complicated between time, memory and connection....

Wat u think?

2NE1 - I Am The Best

what do u do when u'r alone?

sometimes, ppl just need to be alone for no reason, not being emo, just have some private time do things they like or enjoyed....

this is wat i do when i hav that free time (not so often ald recently ;p), listen to musics, watch dance related videos, search for info relating to food manufacturing field etc etc.... 

here is one of the video i find tat it is quite nice to listen to tis morning, a very relaxing piece of music, enjoy...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Cq175HNWu0

Hyuna & Jang Hyun Seung - Trouble Maker MV [english sub + romanization +...

在同一天第二次体会到大人的世界真的很复杂，要承担与承受的也很多。。深呼吸、加油吧，向Irongirl hy看齐 ：）

GIRLS` GENERATION 少女時代_PAPARAZZI_Music Video Dance Edit GOLD

BALI WEDDING VIDEO | CHARMAINE + PAUL "Wedding Highlight"

Random

re-post from a fren's status:

今天在杂志的封面访问里头看到一则心理测验：

请用兔子、房子、钥匙、桥和你自己这5个元素造一个句子，或者描绘一个画面。

封面女郎是两位中国模特儿，这是她们的回答：

“我手握钥匙，过了桥，用钥匙打开家门。家的院子里有一只兔子自己在玩。”何穗

“一只兔子在房里蹦蹦跳跳的，房子前面有座桥，桥下有条小河流，我手拿车钥匙要出门。”琴舒培

而在我脑海里浮现的画面，是这样的：

我过了一座桥，看见一只兔子，它把手里的钥匙交给我，然后我们一起走向房子，开门走进去。

(想要做心理测验的朋友请先在脑海里面造一个句子，把画面想好了，才继续看下去。)

my answer is 我走过一座桥，看见兔子，然后拿出钥匙打开家门。

好了吗？答案揭晓。

兔子=爱人，桥=人生，房子=家庭，钥匙=事业/财富

“哇，好准！我觉得，即使两个人再相爱，都得要有自己的空间。这个世界上没有谁离不开谁、谁必须依赖谁才能活下去。每个人都是一个独立的个体，尤其女人更应该做到自信独立。看到没有？我把钥匙握在自己手上呢！”何穗说道。

“结婚是件很开心的事，我会先把家庭照顾好，然后再去打拼事业。生活和工作目前的比重各50%。我希望我的家人健健康康的，每天都开心快乐。如果真做到，我就觉得自己特成功。成功不是高高在上的东西，它很简单，每个小小的快乐都是成功。”今年年初刚结婚的秦舒培，她的答案跟她目前的人生状态吻合极了。

我对自己的诠释是：

我过着自己想要的人生，遇见了爱人，我们一起为我俩的事业与经济能力努力，然后共组家庭。

it seems to match my life now,

im kinda living in a way i wanted, work-dance-family balance,
then i met my bee, and i think we are currently at the 3rd stage:
both work hard on career for a better future... ;)

i wonder wats bee's answer ;p

baby and dog play with hose

Sheltie Play Day

lolz... this is sooo not me (well, i was afraid of doggie for no reason) ;p
but i kinda like tis type of dog, maybe the 1 i met gave me the impression that they are elegant and nt fierce at all teehee....

oh ya, did u notice from the video? the black color 1 soooo CUTE!! always b the laz 1 for the game lolz

AKC Shetland Sheepdog Puppies - This is Lily

曹格-愛愛 (官方完整版MV)

1st song listened early in the morning ;p

One Valentine

Imma a little happy gf ;p

The incredibly good bf go and buy ingredients to prepare breakfast while the gf stil asleep....
Wat can b sweeter than this ;)