balance

i believe,
when ppl used to doing things independently, he/she will be less reliable ;
its good to be independent, but for less reliable there's a stake;

gals tend to rely on a person whom they think is reliable, someone they are close with,
or perhaps someone who is so important to em, tat they need the person wat so ever;
its not like gals dont have the ability to do things independently,
its a nature for them to so called rely on the ppl who they are close with,
when gals are getting used to be less reliable to a person, she will know that she still can survive without depending on tat particular shoulder, she will realize she don need the shoulder eventually,
it will turns up that the shoulder gals used to rely on, is becoming a supplement, not a need anymore, look at those successful working woman around, they have tis " i-can-do-it-myself-so-i-don-need-u" face..

guys will tends to annoyed when their companion is much depending on em,
they'll crave for space and freedom if they hav a "sticky" one,
maybe they will oso wondering why other gals can be so awesomely independent but this..
oh well, actually the grass at the other side will always looks greener,
truth is, gals wont simply rely on fren, but once cross the so called border,
tadaa~ she will starts to depend on you; tis can be a clue to see who falls for u too =p
bliv me tis happens all the time and applies to evi female;
so guys pls take note if nobody reli tat much depending on u,
either u r a lucky 1 to hav a nice understanding 1 or she's got others source "serving" for her =p

balance is vy important,
too much relying will cause other to lose freedom,
too lil relying means tat person is not tat important --u don hav a place laar =s